MarkF Man, if the pandemic wasn't still going on out here, there would be potential ways to get you out to a private club, but that isn't happening right now.
With that being said, if you are doing one "good" course and willing to drive, I would look at Pelican, Aviara or even the Fairmont (I like Aviara over Pelican, but I may be in the minority on that). Frankly, I think Pelican is overrated/overpriced. If I were you, I would actually make the trek and do Torrey if you have never had the chance. Right now, you can actually get a Friday morning tee time for May 7 in the morning (here is the link: https://foreupsoftware.com/index.php/booking/19347/1487#/teetimes/).
As for muni, I am partial to Oak Tree for bang for your buck. I hate Strawberry Farms and it is way over priced. Maybe look into Black/Gold (it's been a while since I went there).
Just a couple thoughts.